The One Where I Cut Ties.
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The One Where I Cut Ties.

So, over the last two years I’ve considered myself “single and dating,” but I’ve recently come to the realization that while I am single, and I do occasionally date, I wasn’t really “available.” I got close to someone, Red, who became one of my best friends, and while it was a great friendship, for a … Continue reading

The Wheels Keep Turning.
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The Wheels Keep Turning.

Why do I always feel like I’m in a constant state of contemplation – a constant state of unrest? Constantly thinking, figuring, planning and re-planning. It’s like my stupid basement. It keeps flooding and things keep getting moldy. Once a month I have to move all the boxes off the pallets, unpack everything that’s down … Continue reading

Because Jealousy Seems To Defy Logic Sometimes.
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Because Jealousy Seems To Defy Logic Sometimes.

What I don’t understand is how our hearts and our minds can have completely different opinions. When you know something logically and yet you cannot help but have an emotional reaction that says almost the complete opposite.     Like, for instance, seeing that an ex-boyfriend who you have no inherent interest in, has had … Continue reading